Curiosity at Every Age: How Older Adults Are Engaging With AI
At Heron’s Key, curiosity is a way of life. Through resident-led interest groups, shared learning experiences, and informal opportunities to help one another, residents regularly explore new ideas, perspectives, and ways of engaging with the world around them. Recently, that curiosity has extended into thoughtful conversations about artificial intelligence (AI), how it shows up in daily life, and how it can support learning, independence, and connection.
Learning Together Through Open, Peer Support
Technology learning at Heron’s Key is often informal and neighbor-to-neighbor. Each Wednesday, residents with questions or challenges related to technology can stop by the lobby for peer support. Some come to troubleshoot an issue, others learn something new, and some simply listen and observe.
This open, welcoming approach helps residents build confidence at their own pace. It reinforces independence and convenience without pressure or expectation that everyone participates and reflects a broader culture of shared learning that extends well beyond any single topic.
Exposure to Big Ideas in the AI Space
Through our Lifelong Learning interest group, residents recently welcomed Muhammad Aurangzeb Ahmad, a Resident Fellow at Harborview Medical Center (UW Medicine) and a faculty member in computer science at the University of Washington Bothell. His work explores how artificial intelligence intersects memory, identity, and human relationships.
Following the loss of his father, Ahmad created an AI simulation he called “Grandpa Bot” so his young children could experience a sense of knowing their grandfather. That personal experience led him to examine how emerging technologies may reshape the ways we remember loved ones, understand personal identity, and relate to one another across generations.
Rather than focusing on technical details, the talk invited reflection on broader questions. How might artificial intelligence change what it means to be human? What does it mean to remember someone? Where do we draw the line between human experience and code? Residents engaged in thoughtful discussion about how technology may influence relationships, legacy, and the stories we carry forward.
A Practical, Resident-Led Look at ChatGPT
Building on these larger ideas, residents also gathered for a lively, hands-on conversation focused on ChatGPT. Led by a Heron’s Key resident with a background in education, the session was designed to make an often-intimidating topic feel accessible, practical, and even fun.
The discussion combined live demonstrations with real-world examples, including both typed and voice-activated use. To set the context, residents learned that hundreds of millions of people worldwide now use ChatGPT. Locally, engagement was just as strong, with nearly two-thirds of those in the room having already tried ChatGPT or a similar tool.
What stood out most was how residents described using AI not out of novelty, but to support everyday life and continued learning. Examples included finding recipe ideas that fit their kitchen setup, discovering book recommendations, planning trips and reunions, organizing daily priorities, researching family history, drafting speeches for family milestones, and even writing music for choir.
The conversation emphasized how tools like ChatGPT can support independence by helping residents save time, stay organized, and explore new interests. At the same time, residents discussed the importance of using these tools thoughtfully. They emphasized applying critical thinking, avoiding the sharing of personal information, and remembering that AI should never replace professional guidance, especially when it comes to medical advice. These guardrails helped frame AI as a helpful supplement rather than a substitute for human expertise and connection.

Thoughtful Engagement, Not Hype
National research reflects what we see at Heron’s Key. Studies from organizations like AARP show that older adults are increasingly engaging with technology, including AI, while approaching it with discernment. Insights from the AgeTech Collaborative similarly highlight a balance of curiosity and thoughtful concern, particularly around privacy, trust, and appropriate use.
At Heron’s Key, conversations about AI are not about predicting the future or adopting every new tool. They focus on how technology can support everyday life, learning, and independence when approached thoughtfully and together. Residents are asking good questions, sharing knowledge, and deciding for themselves how and when these tools are useful.
The most important takeaway from these conversations is not what AI can do, but how people choose to engage with it. How can technology support curiosity without replacing human connection? How do we use new tools while protecting critical thinking and personal values? What does it mean to learn, remember, and create in a changing world?
These questions are explored through shared learning, open conversation, and a community that values curiosity, independence, and connection at every age.







